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Friday, September 30, 2005

Appeal for donations for 44 underprivileged children in an orphanage at Chabahil, Kathmandu, Nepal

Below is the mass mail which i had sent to my frenz 2 days ago....n it generated a lot of kind response!!! Thank you my frenz....n my frenz had forwarded the same mail to other frenz..n some haf responded to me too....thanks to my frenz to be...would love to meet up with all of you when i am back home....u guys are fantastic!!!!


Namaste!!! Greetings from Nepal...

As some of you may have known, i am currrently doing some volunteer work in Kathmandu, Nepal. I am working in an orphanage at Chabahil in the east of Kathmandu Valley. The orphanage, Shree Mother Nepal Disabled Association, has 44 children aged 2 to 14 years old. The orphanage was established 4 years ago but the conditions have been really bad since. I had read about the family history of the children at the orphanage, most of them are without one or both parents. Some of their parents are killed during the Maoist war. Some of the children are from very remote hilly regions of Nepal such as Humla, Jumla (places that can only be reached after many days of walking) where the village conditions are really bad. Most of them came from very poor families in which their parents cannot afford to feed them or send them to school. There are 2 girls who are unable to walk, one is on wheelchair, the other one would crawl. There is a 14 year old boy whose both legs were amputated from his calves onwards as he had meningitis, he is currently relying on artificial limbs to walk. There is a girl who has scabies.

I had a bit of culture shock when i first arrived at the orphanage. Initially in June 2005, i was told that there were 26 children at the orphanage, but 3 months later the number increased to 44 and i was not being informed. Though the number had increased, the living conditions remained the same, there are not enough beds, 2 to 3 children are sharing one bed. They do not have proper beds to sleep on, all they have is bed boards with thin blankets and the blankets are really smelly and dirty. The children only get to bathe once a week on Saturday as there is not enough water, soap and shampoo for them to bathe everyday. The girls do not have underwears to wear, neither do the boys. There are four girls who had reached puberty, when they have their menstruation, they would cut out old rags to improvise as sanitary pads. Sometimes they have to skip school because of their menses.


All the children are receiving education at Kshitiz Secondary English Boarding School. I had gone to the school with them and spoken to the school principal. All the children goes to the same school, however the orphanage owes the school a huge sum of school fees. The principal had given me feedback that the children are good in their studies, however their cleanliness and hygiene needs a lot of improvement. Their uniform are dirty and torn, some of them do not have socks, shoes, shoe laces, school bags spoilt, etc. They do not have enough exercise books to do their homework on. I have bought 50 buttons to replace the missing buttons on their uniforms and it was not enough, i would be getting more, the sewing kit which i brought along proved to be very useful at the orphanage. The children eat 2 meals a day, at 9am before they goes to school and at 7.30pm at night. It is Nepali culture to eat 2 meals a day and they eat dal bhaat (lentil soup and rice) for every meal. They do not get to eat vegetables or fruits, unless during very rare occasions. The children sit on the floor and eat with their hands during meals. As far as possible, i had been trying to get them to wash their hands before meals. They eat a lot of rice, probably to sustain their hunger until the next meal. There is little medicine for them if they fall ill.

It is saddening and depressing at times seeing such situation going on. I have my doubts about the association if the management is corrupted as the conditions did not improve since establishment. It may be that the orphanage is not receiving enough donations, either that the money the received did not go to the children. I had been trying to gather information by talking to the older children, some of them have been staying there for 4 years and the situation never change. One of the girls had mentioned that sometimes people donated vegetables to them but they did not get to eat them. It is not surprising that the NGOs (Non Governmental Organisations) are corrupted as 98 percent of the NGOs are corrupted as there is no proper body to monitor the NGOs. There is little the nepalese can do to curb corruption as the political situation is so unstable now.

All the children are receiving education at Kshitiz Secondary English Boarding School. I had gone to the school with them and spoken to the school principal. The principal had given me feedback that the children are good in their studies, however their cleanliness and hygiene needs a lot of improvement. Their uniform are dirty and torn, some of them do not have socks, shoes, shoe laces, school bags spoilt, etc. They do not have enough exercise books to do their homework on. I have bought 50 buttons to replace the missing buttons on their uniforms and it was not enough, i would be getting more, the sewing kit which i brought along proved to be very useful at the orphanage.

The children eat 2 meals a day, at 9am before they goes to school and at 7.30pm at night. It is Nepali culture to eat 2 meals a day and they eat dal bhaat (lentil soup and rice) for every meal. They do not get to eat vegetables or fruits, unless during very rare occasions. The children sit on the floor and eat with their hands during meals. As far as possible, i had been trying to get them to wash their hands before meals. They eat a lot of rice, probably to sustain their hunger until the next meal. There is little medicine for them if they fall ill.

It is saddening and depressing at times seeing such situation going on. I have my doubts about the association if the management is corrupted as the conditions did not improve since establishment. It may be that the orphanage is not receiving enough donations, either that the money the received did not go to the children. I had been trying to gather information by talking to the older children, some of them have been staying there for 4 years and the situation never change. One of the girls had mentioned that sometimes people donated vegetables to them but they did not get to eat them. It is not surprising that the NGOs (Non Governmental Organisations) are corrupted as 98 percent of the NGOs are corrupted as there is no proper body to monitor the NGOs. There is little the nepalese can do to curb corruption as the political situation is so unstable now.


I certainly feel that the children at the orphanage deserve much more, i am trying to help as much as possible with my current means. The situation at the orphanage was worse than i had expected, their basic needs such as clothing, food, hygiene are not being met. The donated items i had collected from my friends in Singapore would be a bonus to them, really would like to thank everyone who had contributed. However, right now, i am trying to fulfil their basic needs as much as possible. As gathered from the children and from my observation, the children at the orphanage need :

soap
shampoo
spoons for their meals
cups
clothes
sewing kit, buttons
undergarments
sanitary pads
towels (they do not wipe themselves dry after bath, they put on their dirty clothes after bath)
toothbrush

toothpaste
shoes
socks
shoe laces
school bags
exercise books, writing pads
blankets as winter is coming
proper beds
medicine for common illness
food (more nutritous food)
and many many other things....


I am trying to buy the above items in Kathmandu and would be giving the items to the children directly. It is no point donating money to the association as i do not know where the money would go, the money may not go to the children. If you like to make a donation to the children, you can transfer the money to my POSB savings account ( Account No : 131 286 414), i would use the money which you have kindly donated to buy as much of the above items for the children. Do send me an email at tsquarel@gmail.com or sms me at +65 9477 9566 after you have made a donation so that i can keep track of how much money i have collected for the children, i would do a financial statement of the donated amount and how the money is being utilised, the financial statement would be subjected to audit by my auditor friends and you can ask for it when i return to Singapore in January 2006. If you want to make a donation to improve the lives of the 44 children, i hope that you can do it by 18 October 2005 as my last day at the orphanage would be 20 October 2005, i need the time to go and buy the items and pass to them before i leave Nepal. PS: any amount is fine, in fact every dollar would go a long way for the children, they are really deprived.

I certainly feel that the children at the orphanage deserve much more, i am trying to help as much as possible with my current means. The situation at the orphanage was worse than i had expected, their basic needs such as clothing, food, hygiene are not being met. The donated items i had collected from my friends in Singapore would be a bonus to them, really would like to thank everyone who had contributed. However, right now, i am trying to fulfil their basic needs as much as possible. As gathered from the children and from my observation, the children at the orphanage need :

soap
shampoo
spoons for their meals
cups
clothes
sewing kit, buttons
undergarments
sanitary pads
towels (they do not wipe themselves dry after bath, they put on their dirty clothes after bath)
shoes
socks
shoe laces
school bags
exercise books, writing pads
blankets as winter is coming
proper beds
medicine for common illness
food (more nutritous food)
and many many other things....

I am trying to buy the above items in Kathmandu and would be giving the items to the children directly. It is no point donating money to the association as i do not know where the money would go, the money may not go to the children. If you like to make a donation to the children, you can transfer the money to my POSB savings account ( Account No : 131 286 414), i would use the money which you have kindly donated to buy as much of the above items for the children. Do send me an email at
tsquarel@gmail.com or sms me at +65 9477 9566 after you have made a donation so that i can keep track of how much money i have collected for the children, i would do a financial statement of the donated amount and how the money is being utilised, the financial statement would be subjected to audit by my auditor friends and you can ask for it when i return to Singapore in January 2006. If you want to make a donation to improve the lives of the 44 children, i hope that you can do it by 18 October 2005 as my last day at the orphanage would be 20 October 2005, i need the time to go and buy the items and pass to them before i leave Nepal. PS: any amount is fine, in fact every dollar would go a long way for the children, they are really deprived.

Would greatly appreciate your kind help and thanks for your time in reading this mail til this far. Thanks for your big heart in hearing me. I would be uploading some photographs of the situation at the orphanage on my blog :
www.dunlin.blogspot.com Do check them out and thanks so much for your time and being with me in this journey. Do drop me a mail to stay in touch, i really miss you all!!!!! Take good care everyone!!!!!!

til then, pheri betaula (see you again!!!)
dunlin
durga (nepali name)

i tried to upload fotos but....

the pc crashed on me twice two days ago when i was at the same internet cafe....first time i was typing email n uploading fotos at the same time n the pc jus shut off...i jus blurted "shit"....my long email was gone.... i had to upload the fotos again....when i was uploading the same 4 fotos for the 4th time....ther power supply was cut off!!!!....arrggghhh....the power supply did not resume after i waited half an hour....so i left as i have other things to attend to.....dat's y my previous entry was so incoherent....the captions were there but no fotos...pardon me ya....m trying to upload some fotos now...including pictures of the ophanage n the children....wish me luck...stay tuned...the internet is so slow...but for 10 rupees per hr internet i shall not complain too much....would try to upload as much fotos todae with my remaining air time....

Shree Mother Nepal Disabled Association...some fotos...finallie...



this is the orphanage inChabahil, Nepal, where i am currently volunteering...there are 44 children and other staff like cooks, storekeeper, the chairman, his wife n his 2 children staying in the orphanage...so about 50+ persons staying here but there are less than 50 beds...the small children share beds...sometimes 3 in one bed...n some sleep on the floor...the children eat their meals on the floor..with their hands...and some lovely children in the last picture...more pictures to come...but it really takes time to upload..bear with me...

but i would like to sincerely thank all those who haf kindly responded to my appeal for donations...i haf such overwhelming response in a short span of 2 days after i sent out my appeal...i am so touched by ya big hearts, truly!!!...i may not be able to reply each n everyone...but i would like to thank all of you here!!!!.....i would be updating the amount collected soon....and btw each singapore dollar i collected is equvilant to about 40 nepalese rupees....so dun underestimate each n every dollar u haf contributed...it goes a long way here...wat is more important is that it came from ya big heart and that's invaluable!!!......1 small tube of colgate (50g) cost abt 20 rupees...1 shirt costs about 100 rupees..1 piece of underwear for children costs abt 50 rupees...fruits like bananas cost about 60 rupees for a dozen..1 pen costs about 25 rupees...i would be buying things for the children with all the donations collected....would keep u all updated!!!!.....do pop by here!!!!

Wednesday, September 28, 2005

some fotos of Nepal finallie...but onli 4....ehhh..onli 1 for the moment..the internet is so slow...

outside kathmandu airport...we arrived at 12.35pm nepal time on 20 august 2005...n the cyclists came to receive us...so good to see sean after 1 yr... sean's papa, mama, me n sean...hehee.....

at boudhanath...i was here 6 yrs ago....n yesterdae i went again...for the 4th time....the 4th time i din pay cos went by backside way....haaa..... some fotos during the first few days when i arrived in nepal...was staying in Patan area....when we first came.....in a nice big house rented by a malaysian frenz who is working in nepal....4 storeys.....very un-nepali....sean n sk got to noe this malaysian frenz when they were at the malaysian embassy n we got a good comfy place to stay....we cooked our meals at home n gathered at the dining table for dinner every nite....see foto as above......went to Lukla (2840m) by flight for 3 nites....no trekking though...weather was not good then..clarrie, sk's mama n sean's parents had left for singapore on 31 aug....sean n sk had left to embark on thir cycling journey back home on 6 sept...then i moved to Kalanki for the language n cultural programme...learnt some nepali..but ali ali onli...little bit..hahaha....haf gone to Nagarkot...but could not catch the sunrise as the sky was cloudy...was staying in a typical nepali village for 2 nites...to experience the nepali life...nepali life is reallie hard..they haf to work for every grain of rice they put on their table...but yet they r happie....amazing.....went to the terai region...chitwan national park too...the elephant ride..2 hrs was tortorous for me n the poor elephant...but the elephant bath was fun...finallie came back to kathmandu...the moving ard was making me a bit tired...i haf moved to stay in a rental room in Chabahil, 5 mins walk from the orphanage...staying alone now but is safe over here...haf met frenz here....my neighbour is a teacher n yesterdae n todae he had brought me to his schools to "teach".....the college n undergrad students haf so many questions for me...both serious n silly ones....some as if would i get married here in nepal of i found a man to marry here in nepal.....hahhaa.....it was great fun....however sometimes the sight the orphanage can be depressing..the activities i engaged during my free time had kept me going.....i am onli spending 1 month at the orphanage...after dat i haf to move on to tibet n china....so doing as much as i can while i m here....initiallie i was feeling a bit overwhelmed n helpless by the situation before me...but after talking to the children there....i m more aware n haf better idea of wat i can do for them....there r jus so much to do....as they lack so much....

Thursday, September 22, 2005

the movie "himalaya"

quote from the movie "himalaya" ~ when there are two roads ahead of you, always choose the hardest one....

Monday, September 19, 2005

Happie mooncake festival!!!i Do miss home at times....

happie mooncake festival ya....would go take a look if nepal moon is as round...i do miss mooncakes n i do miss home...been away for almost a month...there are certainly ups n downs...sometimes i do feel tired moving from place to place...sometimes i just wanna be alone...jus need the personal space....the freedom...but i must say this is reallie a different experience....when at home...when i needed somebody...dat somebody may be jus a phone call or sms away....but now...i m all alone...sometimes i do feel lonely n miss my friends at home..n i definitely miss the comfort of my bed too..there r other international volunteers w me too....but like i said....i prefer to be alone at times....then i would haf more time to talk to the locals....n quite comfortable travelling alone....in fact i prefer to be alone than w a group which i feel there is a different frequency....would be spending 3 nites at chitwan national park....w elephant rides....safari...hope my butt would not hurt too much....would be starting my volunteer work on 22 sept....looking forward to that...i must say i haf met many amazing n reallie sincere nepalese....help is always by my side though sometimes i neber ask for it....but the nepalese r always willing to go the extra mile for me....n i truly appreciate that......shuva raatri.....goodnite.....10.50pm nepal time.....btw..nepal is 2 hr n 15 mins behind singapore......enjoy the moon n the mooncakes....n the company of ya loved ones at home...i certainly miss home......no doubt.....but would still carry on w my journey.....til then.....

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

my nepali name is durga...

the week jus went by in a flash..how fast...m very afraid tmlo i woke up i haf to go home oredi..treasuring my time here in nepal..i had a great time here..was learning the nepali language for the past week..with me in my group (ie the language class)..there r 3 other volunteers..1 guy from USA, 1 guy from canada n 1 guy form england..m the onli gal in this group..but the volunteers in my group are great pple..the language class had ended..knew some nepali..n would try to use w the locals as much as possible..n they were always surprised n laughed very hard when they hear us speak nepali..it was so much fun..would be gg nagarkot tmlo afternoon..followed by a 2 days of stay at the village..then back to kathmandu then go to chitwan for another 3 days...reckon the week ahead would fly by again..would be starting my volunteer would officially on 22 sept for 1 month..would moved from kalanki to stay in the orphanage at chabahil..after 1 month of volunteering, would go langtang for a 8 days trek..then another 2 days in kathmandu..awaiting heyu n his obs frenz to arrive..then on 1 nov..would join a tour to tibet..1 way journey for 2 weeks..by mid nov..i should reach china from tibet...planning to tour china for 8 weeks...see how much i can complete...if possible hope to go up to inner mongolia n heilongjiang..bought a 2nd hand china lonely planet here from a bookstore in thamel..gonna read up on china..after china...would go hong kong n fly back from hong kong by budget airline...shd be back home be4 chinese new year...dat's my ideal plan..hope would not deviate too much..anyone keen to join me in any leg of my journey can email me ya..u be most welcomed!!!!take good care there ya!!!!i must say nepal is amazing.....esp the pple..i was walking on the street alone n a lday jus invited me to her house for tea...yesterdae i wanted to go to the tribhuvan university to take a look...n 2 guys on their way home from the same uni offered to show me the way n even bought me tea after..tu tea according to them ...had made many frenz here...when u r here...almost everyone is ya frenz..most of the haf a kind n big heart...truly wanna thank them for giving me such a good time.....pheri betaula...see u again!!!!

Tuesday, September 06, 2005

alone in Kalanki, Kathmandu....

sean n sk left at 2.15pm nepal time on their alloy steeds to peddle back home.....i m still in kathamandu.....haf moved from patan to kalanki this afternoon......after 18 days at patan area....now a change of environment....haf to re-adjust...heee....would be starting the language n cultural programme on thursdae...hope can pick up some nepali language in next 2 weeks...

oh ya....be4 i forgot...i would like to congratulate francis tan....he's getting married on sept 11....sorry dat i would be missing ya big dae....but i would like to mention u in my blog...cos u kept telling me over msn dat i neber write abt u in my blog...hahhaa.....act no lahhh....i haf to thank u for all the technical help in pc ..cameras...MP3...u had given me all the yrs...since dunnoe when...jus ya luck dat u haf known me...too bad...hhaaahaaa.....thanks for downloading the 8 G of songs into my mp3 player...but then hor....how come no jay chou songs???....hahhaa.....the mp3 player been serving me well...but i din listen too much..scared spoilt...wait cannot store fotos.....hehee.....hey hey yo..francis...if u r reading...i haf mentioned so much abt..izzit enuff???....hahaaa........wanna sincerely wish u a blissful marriage....n happy honeymoon!!!!!